Norwich dating agency

Why use a Matchmaker?

Have you tried online dating and found it’s missing that personal touch?  Have you been so busy focusing on your career that your personal life has taken a back seat?  Have you had your fingers burned in a previous relationship?  Or have you simply lost your dating mojo?

Whatever your situation, Norwich Elite Matchmaking can help you in your quest to find your perfect partner.

Why use Norwich Elite Matchmaking?

From start to finish, it’s my holistic approach to dating that sets me apart from the other, more traditional dating services.

  • I am discreet and totally confidential
  • My client profiles are private and cannot be found online
  • I take the time to get to know you and what kind of partner you would like
  • I can help spot possible reasons why previous relationships have failed and can help you avoid repeating these experiences in the future
  • My ‘intelligent matchmaking’ approach means I carefully tailor all of my matches
  • I create a personalised dating journey to help you find your ideal match
  • I’ll do all of the groundwork for you and even arrange your dates, if you need me to!
  • I am with you every step of the way, providing relationship advice and support
  • Need a confidence boost?  I work with style experts to help you look and feel amazing
  • As a Norwich dating agency I am familiar with the local area and can suggest places to visit that fit with your interests and locality

Join Norwich Elite Matchmaking. Create your profile now. This takes 20 minutes, so grab a drink, find some quiet time and create your profile today.

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Your Personality

    Your Personality Type

  • I - I like getting my energy from dealing with the ideas, pictures, memories, and reactions that are inside my head, in my inner world. I often prefer doing things alone or with one or two people I feel comfortable with. I take time to reflect so that I have a clear idea of what I’ll be doing when I decide to act. Ideas are almost solid things for me. Sometimes I like the idea of something better than the real thing. I tend to think before speaking. I feel drained by social interaction on a larger scale, enjoy deep and meaningful social interactions and feel recharged after spending time alone.

    The following statements generally apply to me: -

    • I am seen as “reflective” or “reserved.”
    • I feel comfortable being alone and like things I can do on my own.
    • I prefer to know just a few people well.
    • I sometimes spend too much time reflecting and don’t move into action quickly enough.
    • I sometimes forget to check with the outside world to see if my ideas really fit the experience.
  • E – I like getting my energy from active involvement in events and having a lot of different activities. I’m excited when I’m around people and I like to energise other people. I like moving into action and making things happen. I generally feel at home in the world. I prefer group activities and get energised by social interaction. I often understand a problem better when I can talk out loud about it and hear what others have to say. I think while I am speaking. The following statements generally apply to me: - I am seen as “outgoing” or as a “people person.” I feel comfortable in groups and like working in them. I have a wide range of friends and know lots of people. I sometimes jump too quickly into an activity and don’t allow enough time to think it over. Before I start a project, I sometimes forget to stop and get clear on what I want to do and why.
  • How You Process Information

  • N – I am imaginative and rely on my intuition. I get absorbed in ideas and focus on what might happen. I tend to focus on empathy, morality and cooperation. I pay attention to impressions or the meaning and patterns of the information I receive. I would rather learn by thinking a problem through than by hands-on experience. I’m interested in new things and what might be possible, so that I think more about the future than the past. I like to work with symbols or abstract theories, even if I don’t know how I will use them. I remember events more as an impression of what it was like than as actual facts or details of what happened.

    The following statements generally apply to me: -

    • I remember events by what I read 'between the lines' about their meaning.
    • I solve problems by leaping between different ideas and possibilities.
    • I am interested in doing things that are new and different.
    • I like to see the big picture, then to find out the facts.
    • I trust impressions, symbols, and metaphors more than what I actually experienced.
    • Sometimes I think so much about new possibilities that I never look at how to make them a reality.
  • I pay attention to physical reality, what I see, hear, touch, taste, and smell. I am down to earth and concerned with what is actual, present, current, and real. I notice facts and I remember details that are important to me. I like to see the practical use of things and learn best when I see how to use what I’m learning. I focus on facts and details and enjoy getting hands-on experience. I am highly practical, meticulous and traditional, embracing and creating order, security and stability wherever I go. I am spontaneous, practical and inventive, able to quickly think on my feet and make best use of my surroundings.

    The following statements generally apply to me: -

    • I remember events as snapshots of what actually happened.
    • I solve problems by working through facts until I understand the problem.
    • I am pragmatic and look to the 'bottom line.'
    • I start with facts and then form a big picture.
    • I trust experience first and trust words and symbols less.
    • Sometimes I pay so much attention to facts, either present or past, that I miss new possibilities.
  • How You Make Decisions

  • I place a greater emphasis on facts and objective data. When I make a decision, I like to find the basic truth or principle to be applied, regardless of the specific situation involved. I like to analyse pros and cons, and then be consistent and logical in deciding. I try to be impersonal, so I won’t let my personal wishes, or other people’s wishes, influence me.

    The following statements generally apply to me: -

    • I enjoy technical and scientific fields where logic is important.
    • I notice inconsistencies.
    • I look for logical explanations or solutions to most everything.
    • I make decisions with my head and want to be fair.
    • I believe telling the truth is more important than being tactful.
    • Sometimes I miss or don’t value the “people” part of a situation.
    • I can be seen as too task-oriented, uncaring, or indifferent.
  • I put more weight on personal concerns and the people involved. I am sensitive, follow my heart and focus on harmony and cooperation. I believe I can make the best decisions by weighing what people care about and the points-of-view of persons involved in a situation. I am concerned with values and what is the best for the people involved. I like to do whatever will establish or maintain harmony. In my relationships, I appear caring, warm, and tactful.

    The following statements generally apply to me: -

    • I have a people or communications orientation.
    • I am concerned with harmony and nervous when it is missing.
    • I look for what is important to others and express concern for others.
    • I make decisions with my heart and want to be compassionate.
    • I believe being tactful is more important than telling the 'cold' truth.
    • Sometimes I miss seeing or communicating the 'hard truth' of situations.
    • I am sometimes experienced by others as too idealistic, mushy, or indirect.
  • How You Like To Live Your Life

  • I prefer a more structured and decided lifestyle. Whether I use my thinking or feeling side, I use my decision-making preference in my outer life. I am decisive and prefer clear rules and guidelines. I see deadlines as sacred and seek closure. I am highly practical, meticulous and traditional, embracing and creating order, security and stability wherever I go. To others, I seem to prefer a planned or orderly way of life, like to have things settled and organised, feel more comfortable when decisions are made, and like to bring life under control as much as possible. Since this only describes what I prefer in the outer world, I may, inside, feel flexible and open to new information (which I am).

    The following statements generally apply to me: -

    • I like to have things decided.
    • I appear to be task oriented.
    • I like to make lists of things to do.
    • I like to get my work done before playing.
    • I plan work to avoid rushing just before a deadline.
    • Sometimes I focus so much on the goal that I miss new information.
  • I am flexible and adaptable. Whether I use my sensing or intuitive side, I like to take in information in my outer life. I am very good at improvising and prefer keeping my options open. I am relaxed about my work and seek freedom. I am spontaneous, practical and inventive. I am able to quickly think on my feet and make best use of my surroundings. To others, I seem to prefer a flexible and spontaneous way of life, and I like to understand and adapt to the world rather than organise it. Others see me staying open to new experiences and information. Since this only describes what I prefer in the outer world, inside I may feel very planful or decisive (which I am).

    The following statements generally apply to me: -

    • I like to stay open to respond to whatever happens.
    • I appear to be loose and casual.
    • I like to keep plans to a minimum.
    • I like to approach work as play or mix work and play.
    • I work in bursts of energy.
    • I am stimulated by an approaching deadline.
    • Sometimes I stay open to new information so long I miss making decisions when they are needed.
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Your Ethnicity and Religion

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Your Physical Appearance

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Your Lifestyle

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Relationships, Emotions and You

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Your Ideal Partner

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Your Ideal Partner's Personality Type

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Your Ideal Partner's Personality Type

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Your Ideal Partner's Ethnicity and Religion

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Your Ideal Partner's Physical Appearance

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Your Ideal Partner's Lifestyle


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I started seeing Judith after the breakdown of my marriage.  It was a time of immense distress and uncertainty. Judith was patient and supportive and helped me sift through all the uncertainty to identify some really practical solutions to my problems. After only 4 sessions with Judith, I felt more confident, capable and able to cope.

J, Norwich, Norfolk

Judith is a gifted development coach, who works from the heart. Her understanding of the human personality is ‘second to none.’ After a session with Judith I felt more able to deal with past matters and had renewed confidence to deal with any future situations that may arise.

V, Bury St Edmunds, Norfolk

Having recently split up with my wife I had no idea where to turn or what direction my life was going. After a session with Judith, she helped instill some much-needed confidence in myself which had been lacking for quite some time.

C, Lowestoft, Suffolk

Following my coaching session, I got all my ‘stuff’ sorted, which I’m relieved about.  My marriage is better and more solid than ever. We no longer worry or argue about money and we now spend quality time together. I’m much happier and content and can just be ‘me’.

E, Norwich, Norfolk